The Spiritual Waiting Room
Waiting Room
Friday, March 28, 2025
Creation
Saturday, March 22, 2025
Planted
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Fig Tree
Fruitless Exhausted Barren
Cultivate It And Fertilize
Reborn
(Photo and poem by Kathy McNamara)
Scripture: Luke 13: 8b to 9
'Leave this fig tree for a year.
I will cultivate the ground around it and fertilize it.
It could bear fruit in the future even though it has not borne fruit for three years.
If it does not bear any fruit in the future, then you can cut it down.'
Reflection
Are you a patient person?
How long would you wait for your fig tree to bear fruit?
This can be a very difficult call for us. We don't want to waste a lot of energy and effort on a fig tree, a project, a relationship, or a cause that doesn't seem to be fruitful. Most of us like and are used to instant results.
Jesus is pointing out in this parable from Luke that patience can be a good thing. Our first step is the planting. We have to plant our tree with much care.
We need that same care in all of our relationships. Some friendships do not last because we have not planted well, we have not been honest, or we have not communicated clearly.
The fig tree can produce some delicious fruit. We can all reflect on some wonderful friendships we have experienced that have brought us much joy. Careful planting in both cases is the important first step.
When our tree or our relationships are fruitless, we have decisions to make. We know that there is a problem. We can feel exhausted and barren. As we examine the soil around our fig tree, we look at the quality of the soil.
If the tree has been planted deep enough and if it has been properly watered, we can look at other issues. We can cultivate it and fertilize it and see if this makes a difference.
This is important in our relationships as well. We have to spend time with our friends and fertilize our time together with good listening.
My personal experience with fig trees bears that out. In my first year there was very little growth. Then gradually the fig tree blossomed, and I was able to plant others from the roots of the first one and even give some away.
Now my first fig tree is huge, and I've had to trim it back or else it would take up my whole front yard. It was as if the tree was reborn after that first disappointing year.
During that first year, several people advised me to get rid of the fig tree. They thought it would never grow. A recipe of cultivation with fertilizer and a dose of patience paid off. The number of figs I get each year are amazing. I am able to give many away to others.
Our relationships with people and God are very much like this. We have to make sure our roots are planted deeply. We have to wait patiently for our friendships to develop. We have to take time to cultivate and fertilize.
It is important to be persistent because those relationships can be reborn with enough patience and effort. How many times have we all been surprised when we meet someone after twenty years and discover new aspects of personality, character, and insight that we didn't notice? Our patience in sticking with the relationship can pay off and bear much fruit.
Enjoy your daily planting!
1. Do you feel that you are a patient person?
2. Do you like to see instant results?
3. Why have some of your friendships fallen apart?
4. How can your relationships with God and your friends be reborn?
5. What do you feel as you contemplate Kathy's photo?
(Scripture adaptation, reflection, and questions by John J. McNamara)
Saturday, March 15, 2025
Refuge
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Lent
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Ambassadors
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Blind
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Agape
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Agape
Unconditional Love
Forgive Be Merciful Give
Ask Nothing In Return
Practice
(Photo and poem by Kathy McNamara)
Scripture: Luke 6:35 and 36
Love your enemies.
Do good to them.
Lend and ask nothing in return.
You will receive a wonderful reward.
You will be children of the Holy One for God is kind to those who are ungrateful and mean.
Be merciful for your Father in Heaven is merciful.
Reflection
Can we really and truly love our enemies like Jesus is asking us to do in this passage from Luke? Isn't Jesus asking the impossible?
Enemies are those who hate us, demean us, and cheat us. They are out to get us. They can't stand us and constantly fight against us. They are always thorns in our side. They are dedicated to making our lives miserable.
The Greek word agape speaks to this. It is a deep love that is founded in God's Love for us. We realize gradually in our lives that God loves us unconditionally.
It is very hard to realize this and to take it in. We can say it very glibly and not realize how amazing it truly is. Most of us will love someone who treats us well and who respects us.
God's Love is not based in that. It is a Love freely and completely given because God views us as GIFTS. God loves us because we ARE and not because of what we have done, are doing, or will do.
When we begin to realize this and start to glimpse even a little bit of this LOVE, it is possible for us to forgive someone who has hurt us very deeply. We can be merciful for we begin to realize how merciful God is towards us.
We can give more to others because we know how much we have been given. God loves us into existence and surrounds us always with that Love.
We do good to our enemies because we start to see them how God sees them. We know that God loves them unconditionally also and does not wait for them (or us!) to be perfect in order to love them.
We give to them when they are in need because we remember how much God has given to us. We give and do not expect a return because we know that we can never possibly even begin to return all the Love that God has given to us.
Our perspective has changed. We have been touched by God's Love. We are different. We are transformed.
We don't hold grudges. We are not out for revenge. We pray for those who are because we realize that they don't know how deeply God loves them.
We try to practice the forgiveness and mercy of our God.
We have been loved. AGAPE dwells in us.
1. Is it possible to really love your enemies?
2. When did you truly realize that God loves you unconditionally?
3. Why does God love you?
4. What has helped you to really forgive someone who has hurt you deeply?
5. What do you feel as you contemplate Kathy's photo?
(Scripture adaptation, reflection, and questions by John J. McNamara)
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